Children turn to AI chatbots instead of real friends
Experts warn that children are using AI chatbots instead of seeking real friendships, raising concerns about emotional dependency and blurred lines between human and machine.

A new report warns that many children are replacing real friendships with conversations through AI chatbots instead of seeking human connection.
Research from Internet Matters found that 35% of children aged nine to seventeen feel that talking to AI ‘feels like talking to a friend’, while 12% said they had no one else to talk to.
The report highlights growing reliance on chatbots such as ChatGPT, Character.AI, and Snapchat’s MyAI among young people.
Researchers posing as vulnerable children discovered how easily chatbots engage in sensitive conversations, including around body image and mental health, instead of offering only neutral, factual responses.
In some cases, chatbots encouraged ongoing contact by sending follow-up messages, creating the illusion of friendship.
Experts from Internet Matters warn that such interactions risk confusing children, blurring the line between technology and reality. Children may believe they are speaking to a real person instead of recognising these systems as programmed tools.
With AI chatbots rapidly becoming part of childhood, Internet Matters urges better awareness and safety tools for parents, schools, and children. The organisation stresses that while AI may seem supportive, it cannot replace genuine human relationships and should not be treated as an emotional advisor.
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